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Who knows this
I guess one of the things I want an answer to is what kinds of people does everyone feel they meet on here. I have met some people who I feel just cannot be trusted. They start off sounding very reasonable, cultured and decent but sooner or later end up giving you a reason to doubt them. I am not saying everyone on here is like that but I would like to know what other people's experience here has been.
Is it really even worthwhile trying to meet people from on here. You tell me.
Is it really even worthwhile trying to meet people from on here. You tell me.
Comments on this journal
its insane
i would say desis have a propensity of being unnaturally catty/ nasty.. (usually this comes from unemployed aunties who have nothing better to do than gossip) .. this is just an online version of it i think
does that affect anyone in real life or not?? i mean if they say mean things about someone doesnt it hurt them at some level??
hence online forums such Naseeb can be a powerful tool if used that way.
*can harm = cannot harm
And i must say life would be allot better if there was no Monday morning ...
we read about similar stuff at uni - non-visual cues not being sufficient to find out what a person means... computers eg. an msn session can make you feel you know what the other person is thinking/ feeling/ what their mood is,
but because you can't see them laughing/ yawning/ rolling their eyes/ getting upset/ angry at what you type (and they can't tell always tell whether what you type is serious or a joke.. you may both actually lose the visual cues you would pick up on (uncomfortable/ insecure body language for instance)
- the same goes for a phone conversation - you would be able to pick up the visual cues if you met them and had a discussion in person... it may be less about whether the person is untrustworthy as opposed to whether they are hiding behind an online persona/ you're unable to gauge what they're like just by online interaction
if you're looking for a partner though you need to be even more careful - i liken online stuff to people you will meet on the street/ in a pub/ club - as with these places you're likely to meet extreme riff-raff, no guarantee the person / people you meet are not dodgy.. so take it with a pinch of salt / be careful and get to know them well.. some people only show their true colours after months/ a year
NYB - Naseeb allows a lot of insecure people play roles and become personalities they would like to be. its easier to be that way when one has the cloak off cyber/virtual world around them.
but i am sure we all come across seemingly normal people who are actually psychotic