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The Rising Cost of Muslim Marriage


The current issue of Islamic Horizons highlights the issue of escalating wedding prices for Muslims in North America. Weddings are reported to cost up to $75,000, while the U.S. average is $27,852. And while culture dictates some of it, much of the extravagance appears to come from having attended other functions and wanting even better for one's own children. Thus, the following questions:

- is this trend evident in your part of the world too?
- have weddings costs gone too far?
- what is too much to pay?
- is it worth going into debt for?
- how many people do you invite? How do you decide who attends and who does not?
- how many days should the ceremony(-ies) be?
- where would you have your wedding?
- what would you wear and how often would you change?
- what gifts are expected in your culture, who gives them, and who receives them?

Any other opinions, questions, or general information on the topic are welcome.
 

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Login to find out (April 9, 2007 at 4:27am)
Backyard weddings are always the best :) I think weddings these days are expensive because people want to impress each other. They are also under the impression that the more money you spend on the wedding, the better and more memorable it will be. But that is not always the case. I have heard of people who went bankrupt because of their extravegance, and their marriage lasted only a year at most because of the stress and pressure that cames with living in debt. I figured, the best wedding will be the one where the lady has her perfect (or not so perfect) guy, surrounded by loved ones and beautiful outdoor weather :)

Peace
 
Login to find out (February 5, 2007 at 2:47am)
I recently happened to be at the mosque after Jumaah (waiting for Asr prayer), when a couple got married by the khateeb (who also served as wali for the woman). I believe they were both reverts and I think that played into the decision to do it that way. Anyone think that they would be happy getting married that way? I have no idea if there was more to it than that (like a party later at someone's house), but they filmed the ceremony and the groom was dressed in a suit and beaming like this was the real thing. I think I would be fine with that type of wedding, but my future bride and our families may not be of the same mind.
 
Login to find out (February 4, 2007 at 5:32pm)
This is really nice Hook. And I believe that's the way it should be.

I think you should post this message in "GetMarried" village. It will get a whole lot more reponse there.
 
Login to find out (January 11, 2007 at 7:35pm)
My sister got married at my parents' home and only close family attended the ceremony. After that was over, other guests came to a light reception on their deck and in various parts of the house. I'm not sure how much it cost, but it was definitely not in the tens of thousands. Then again, I don't think they have ever been to one of the really lavish weddings so she may not have had a benchmark to meet.