For a Friend
I'm writing this for feedback. Please I would like responses from both sisters and brothers on this matter.
When a woman comes into Islam it is as if her past has been wiped away and she is clean. Even with much dua, constant study, and guidance the scars of her past may still linger with her. These scars can be of the emotional, physical, or both types depending on the abuse she suffered.
In an ideal world we would hope that these things, these atrocities committed against a woman (or any person) would not hold them back in seeking a spouse. We would hope that the scars both emotional and physical could be overcome with love, patience, and shared faith with another. This would be the ideal.
How does one tactfully look for a brother that could accept your sisters unique situation?
How does one gauge compassion for this?
When a woman comes into Islam it is as if her past has been wiped away and she is clean. Even with much dua, constant study, and guidance the scars of her past may still linger with her. These scars can be of the emotional, physical, or both types depending on the abuse she suffered.
In an ideal world we would hope that these things, these atrocities committed against a woman (or any person) would not hold them back in seeking a spouse. We would hope that the scars both emotional and physical could be overcome with love, patience, and shared faith with another. This would be the ideal.
How does one tactfully look for a brother that could accept your sisters unique situation?
How does one gauge compassion for this?


