OOOHH ... yeah....this is about a GUY! axalias...you and i have discussed the woe's of men before on other forums...and this i just cannot even begin to understand! I"M 29 years old...and so is HE! some would consider us adults...aka...Govt, parents, employers etc.

heres what happend....we were talkign for a few weeks...almost twice a day on thephone, msn...and we met up twice...on the second meeting...he showed some affection (aka..we kissed...i know...too soonfor that) and then after that....i mentinoed to him that i thuoght it was too soon for that...and that i think we should slow it down....but i still liked him alot....and he totaly agreed....however...he still wanted to date other people and pretend like that kiss never happend.....but i ask you......how is that possible? how fair is that? i mean...i dont go around doing stuff like that on a whim....but apparently this was no big deal to him...i'm a bit old fashioned and only am affectionate with those that i'm truelly holding feelings for....so i was obviously very hurt....its been 4 days, and he hasnt returned any of my phone calls....and has briefly chatted with me on msn..usually just hi and bye....sigh....how do i NOT obsesses about this?