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has added a new journalWith regard to arranged marriages where the family chooses the partner, they are not all good and not all bad. If the family makes a good choice and the woman is religious and beautiful, and the husband likes her and wants to marry her, then there is the hope that their marriage will be stable and successful. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) urged the one who wants to get married to look at the woman. It was narrated from al-Mugheerah ibn Shu?bah that he proposed marriage to a woman, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ?Go and look at her, because that is more likely to create love between you.? (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1087; classed as hasan by al-Nasaa?i, 3235)
But if the family makes a bad choice, or they make a good choice but the husband does not agree with it, then this marriage is most likely doomed to failure and instability, because the marriage that is based on lack of interest usually is not stable.
Marriage should be entered into with total commitment and full knowledge of what it involves. Your partner should be your choice for life. Question a lot of people ask well ?Who is the One for Me??
I have gathered various readings and will talk about choosing a right partner and making love last. I will draw from my own experiences and those of men and woman I came across. By end of this reading I hope you understand why you make the love choices you do.
