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Life Journey ....nuggets
By Chiragh-e-Raahto recognise something unique, of value and precious is one thing and difficult enough. However, it takes great wisdom, honesty,sincerity, due care and attention, and some sacrifice to not only attain but actually hold onto/keep that. If one doesn't truly value, understand and cherish, it will slip away from their grasp /hands in the blink of an eye...much quicker than it took to seek it out .
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Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 21, 2014 at 4:25pm)
nauroz..thank you too for your comment . yes i do realize each one of us has an allotted time to be on this plane ...which has already been decreed. InshAllah re most of us ending up in the better part when we move onto next life. Ameen
sorry about losing your father, but you are blessed and lucky that he frequents your dreams. I lost my father a very long time ago.
As for trials and tribulations, yes indeed and i am under no illusion regarding that ..having been through fair few already lloll and ughh for that :P but yes everyone has those , after all this life is a test .
It will take a while to adjust to..ie ami ji not being here, as she was a big big part of my life etc ..khair.....whilst we all know each one of us will go , it still doesn't make it any easier or less painful , especially when a close loved one. thank you for the compliment
sorry about losing your father, but you are blessed and lucky that he frequents your dreams. I lost my father a very long time ago.
As for trials and tribulations, yes indeed and i am under no illusion regarding that ..having been through fair few already lloll and ughh for that :P but yes everyone has those , after all this life is a test .
It will take a while to adjust to..ie ami ji not being here, as she was a big big part of my life etc ..khair.....whilst we all know each one of us will go , it still doesn't make it any easier or less painful , especially when a close loved one. thank you for the compliment
naurozkhayal
(April 21, 2014 at 12:13pm)
Cheer up chiragh-e-raah ,we all come here for a limited role in the script,and have to leave.I am pretty sure life on the other side will be much better than this.Yes ,mothers are great creatures because they love us expecting nothing in return,and it must be very hard to live without them.I lost my father in 2006 ,in my life i didn't realize how much he meant to me,but since he's gone i haven't forgotten about him.After his death i came to understand him much better than during his life.The challenges for the male head of the family in pakistan are too many and least recognized by the society at large.In our traditional pakistani society males are taken for tyrants.In my case i am visited by my dad rgularly in my dreams and it kind of takes care of my longings and cravings for his company.To sum it up in a charaghian way we all have to go through trials and tribulations in the life journey,just hold on to whatever your sweet mother taught you,and she must be mighty proud to have left a good person behind.
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 21, 2014 at 4:03am)
Summ Ameen
thanks livein....we have no choice, we were all blessed with whatever time we had with our mothers and it is indeed extremely painful and hard to have such a key part of life and vital link gone/moved on.
May Allah(swt) grant our parents places in Janah. Ameen
thanks livein....we have no choice, we were all blessed with whatever time we had with our mothers and it is indeed extremely painful and hard to have such a key part of life and vital link gone/moved on.
May Allah(swt) grant our parents places in Janah. Ameen
liveintoday
(April 20, 2014 at 10:10pm)
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom,Chiragh. And even more sorry to tell you that there is no good news here because this pain never gets better. I lost my Mom more than 20 years ago but I still miss her the same and it still hurts the same. I pray that you learn to deal with this pain and grow stronger. May Allah grant her a place in heaven. Ameen.
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 4:22pm)
neither you nor anyone else needs to get off this journal....just let's not drag things down and lets just have civil discourse. if there is someone you or someone doesnt have time for ,then pass it by and comment on other matters or to others regarding other matters etc
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 3:46pm)
please just both stop.....i am already a bit unsettled as is 1st anniversary of ami ji's death. kuch khyal rukoa plse ..shukriya
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 3:43pm)
casing point dr shizzle......as you know you and i have interacted by way of journals/broadcasts beit mine or other peoples,, many times before ...and you never labelled me or called me appa....so why the sudden change today :P thanks,
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 3:40pm)
hmm ...dr shizzle ....firstly i am not your appa...just because i let it slide, doesn't mean i liked it or it was right for you to label me as appa. secondly , wow talk about doing exactly what you earlier actually accused livein of "Liveintoday is pointing fingers without finding facts. .." so can i take it from ur comment that you have personally seen and met livein etc :)
khair....ok would u both plse stop this ...livein thanks speaking up but plse avoid labelling anyone eg using word stupid. dr shizzle , plse avoid insulting others eg using words like ugly, frustrated etc and in effect also doing a character assassination ...!!
khair....ok would u both plse stop this ...livein thanks speaking up but plse avoid labelling anyone eg using word stupid. dr shizzle , plse avoid insulting others eg using words like ugly, frustrated etc and in effect also doing a character assassination ...!!
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 2:34pm)
it's ok livein .....i have learned to let matters like these pass....how we all behave/treat others /write etc just reflects on us /shows who we are or are not etc
liveintoday
(April 20, 2014 at 2:22pm)
Shizzle, I don't know how young or stupid you are but stop calling Chiragh aapa as a way of reminding her she is older than you.
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 1:20pm)
i didnt expect it to tick you off....:) but more like a tongue in cheek statement...wit on either side should be understood and appreciated dr shizzle....but then as you are a dr no doubt you will appreciate that point
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 10:01am)
correction - * perceived undertones or perceived subtleties * :)
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 9:59am)
loll.....chiloa ...think as u wish or interpret how you please ....beit through undertones or subtletities... As for easter sunday.....loll makes no difference whether it is easter or not :P but i thank you for the sentiment of enjoying my sunday....same to u too of course
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 9:20am)
:) i merely raised the point of naming or not naming ...as you made a big point of writing 'i am sensible enough not to name names' ..and that is actually what i was saying that is ok too ....loll
khair....as i say 'each to their own' By the way nauroz seems to be quite capable of handling himself...and i have no angst with him either....i like reading some of his posts too and why you felt that u had to assist him here , defeats me to be honest. He had said his piece , i explained my take and it was his choice what to think of that and do or not do and he took the steps he felt appropriate:) ..khair i also have no angst against u .....and thank you for ur comments
khair....as i say 'each to their own' By the way nauroz seems to be quite capable of handling himself...and i have no angst with him either....i like reading some of his posts too and why you felt that u had to assist him here , defeats me to be honest. He had said his piece , i explained my take and it was his choice what to think of that and do or not do and he took the steps he felt appropriate:) ..khair i also have no angst against u .....and thank you for ur comments
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 8:55am)
btw drshizzle...considering it seems nauroz removed his comment ..how do u know what to agree or disagree with anyway loll
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 8:53am)
oh btw ..i do and did give the recipient of the baseless accusations,...opportunity and chance to respond etc....and as author of journal in question, i of course presented my take or understanding too :) which seemed to be understood and overall accepted by the recipient in question
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 20, 2014 at 8:50am)
dr shizzle..thank you for your comments. as a matter of fact at first i tend to politely alert/point out to whoever and give them a caution or two..which i am sure you can and have seen in the way i have worded my comments :) In other words , i do tend to give people a chance or two at first , which too i am sure you are very well aware of.
Also, not that i need to explain myself lol am pretty cognisant of whether certain people tend to make a habit of picking fights /being rude or not.....ie jumping in and touting their trumpet syndrome lol unnecessarily. I have no personal angst against anyone and i do tend to deal with my journals/broadcasts and content therein.
whilst you have said in ur latest comment u dont names u did exactly that in previous comment :) but that is ok.....
i do thank you for voicing your concerns and they are duly noted. thanks
i had responded to nauroz , and explained my take on the comment and he seemed to be ok with it :)
Also, not that i need to explain myself lol am pretty cognisant of whether certain people tend to make a habit of picking fights /being rude or not.....ie jumping in and touting their trumpet syndrome lol unnecessarily. I have no personal angst against anyone and i do tend to deal with my journals/broadcasts and content therein.
whilst you have said in ur latest comment u dont names u did exactly that in previous comment :) but that is ok.....
i do thank you for voicing your concerns and they are duly noted. thanks
i had responded to nauroz , and explained my take on the comment and he seemed to be ok with it :)
Chiragh-e-Raah
(April 17, 2014 at 10:11am)
nauroz.....am sure each one of us has at some point 'lost the plot' loll /faltered etc...